Saturday, August 7, 2010

Past Relationships leads to Strong one for present.Do All relationships comes with the past? Soch lo!!!!!


REMEMBER PAST BIRDS THEY TOO CAN FLY



“Some people come into our livesand leave footprints on our heartsand we are never ever the same.”

AS WE GROW UP,FROM TIME TO TIME WE MAKE MISTAKES.
Sometimes,we hurt people's feelings.In most instances,the hurt caused is unintended.But,nonetheless,for the person who feels the pain,it is real.Once we realize we have hurt someone,we spend an enormous amount of time explaining rationally why the other person should not have felt that way.
"This is unnecessary;the only reason we get into all that is our ego."
The moment calls for the just three words:'I AM SORRY'.

These are the words, ofcourse wisely not said by me, but i read it in a book written by Subroto Bagchi-"Go kiss the World".
Its so easy to think about oneself......
but,this book really made me think about those behind us for our daily customary.

A example from the corporate world-
Subroto Bagchi grew up amidst what he calls the material simplicity' of rural and small-town,imbibing from his family a sense of contentment,constant wonder,connectedness to a larger whole and learning from unusual sources.From humble beginnings,he went on to achieve extraordinary professional success,eventually co-founding MindTree,one of India's most admired software services companies.
With his simple words and wisdom he brought an aggrandadised example for how past relationships lead to one in present.

Sometimes a key lesson has been delivered to me in a mysterious manner.An unusual individual,a personal angel,has come to tell it in the passing-a few words of wisdom......
Once i was on an outing for just an excursion i went to flower shop and ordered a small bunches of flowers to be made.After i had paid for it and was about to walk away,the man on stall patted me on back. He was a man in his eighties.As i turned my attention to him,he said-"Whenevr you make a choice,you also choose a series of consequences."
So seriously its not the long term relationships but even an accidental touch can move your present......
There is nothing in the whole world which abides. All things are in a state of ebb and flow, and every shadow passes away. Even time itself, like a river, is constantly gliding away .
Its rightly written in silver lining
"Study the past if you would divine the future. ~Confucius"
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Sunday, June 13, 2010

Are you aware of...... what you know as HAPPINESS?????


"Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it."

Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared. I came to know this when i saw a serious face and smiled and i got a smile on the others face.


For a long time it seemed to me that life was about to begin-real life…..


But there was always some obstacle in the way.something to be gotten through first,some unfinished business,time still to be served, a debt to be paid at last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life. This perspective has helped me to see there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So treasure every moment you have and remember that time waits for no one.

“HAPPINESS IS A JOURNEY NOT A DESTINATION….”